Exploding soon!
Second time and she still refused to talk to me. This is so sickening! How can she ignore me like that? Does she really think that my dad can talk me out?? Sorry lo, he can't. Not that I don't want to listen to them, the thing is she don't want to listen to me. If she listened and talked to me, I might have not been so angry and maybe listened to them. Ask my dad to be a messenger and give stupid reason like "why don't wait till after graduation, then you will have more time.", "why spend unnecessary money now" and "you can still enjoy yourself by going out in S'pore". What the heck! What's the diff between going now and going after I graduate?It is not as if I am going for 80 days tour around the world and spending $2-3k! I am just going for 3 days and spending what I can afford. I am not even asking them to fork out the money for me. I am sad, not because she didn't allow me to go. I just can't accept why she don't want to listen to me and worse, she don't even want to talk to me. Tell me what "busy with shopping, go talk to your dad", stupid! She never appreciates my presence anyway. Don't want to type already, the more I type, the higher the "temperature" is rising.
3 Comments:
I am unsure about the concerns that your parents have for you. Given that you are already an adult by age and legally speaking, you are pretty responsible for yourself now.
They give me an impression that they are over protecting you. And it's good to do a little shout out to them that you want some control over your life.
Perhaps you should tell them that you want from break from urban life. More like a getaway from both Singapore and Melbourne.
Tell them that you need a breather from school work? And three days in Bangkok will do the job perfectly.
Tell your dad that you are old enough to make certain decisions and that you will respect him very much for respecting your decisions.
If all else fails, wonder what will happen if you tell him, your decision to go abroad for three days has been set? And anything that they want to discuss come back then discuss? I feel bad because it really seems like I am teaching 101 ways of "How to defy your parents' decisions?"
All in all, talk to them in a well mannered tone. They will be surprised how composed you are. Good luck!
Hey
Cheer up gal. Dun let this mood affect your exams. Sure u can talk it out with the parents, although i know wat u re going thru wth them, used to experienec that with my mom. Thank god she is not here to do that anymore.haha. Bet she doin that with my sis.
Anywah, cheer up ok. Look on the birght side ya..and look forward to meeting me. I am sure u will be happy. :)
Lotz of luv
Amy
Hello Shan,
Haven't seen you for a long time. Hope exams have been going well for u (:
I blog surfed to your friend Amelia, then saw her testimonial to you (cos you're on my recent updates), realized she's from my Primary sch, 2 yrs my senior! So cool..
Take care and hope you get to go on your Bangkok holiday! (:
Cheers,
Amanda
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