F@te & d3stinY

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Dreams to fulfill, goals to hit~

Lose weight. Get good grades. Graduate with a degree. Earn big bucks. Get dream car. Repay parents, granny and aunties. Set up own business. Find a good guy to get married. Enjoy life to the max. Have a family with 2 kids. Travel around the world. Get wiser with age. Maintaining decades-long friendships. Living happily-ever-after??

Believe or not. This is what I am thinking about when I get bored with my books. I am thinking or u may say, planning for my life. True enough, the above are some of my dreams. Well, coz I guess as years come by, my dreams will increase or get bigger or be wilder?? Heez. God knows. Though I don't really know how much I can achieve at the moment, I just want to get my short-term goals working. If it is so hard to accomplish short-term goals, how can I dream on??

Why did I start thinking about dreams and goals?? The reason is amusing though. Coz now then I realised that everybody really have different dreams and goals to accomplish. It is not just simply earning big bucks and having a good life. And what's more amazing, our definitions of a good life are so different. My poly good friend thinks that getting married and being a housewife is having a good life to her. (which beats me why??) So does my primary school friend, just that she want to be a businesswoman as well. My secondary school friend thinks that slacking and being a tai-tai to her is good life. Another secondary school friend thinks that travelling around the world and be challenged in the coporate world to her is good life. Well, I think I could only think about my good life when I settled my loans. Diaoz u may think. Even if I eat, drink, play nothing, I might take at least 5 years to pay up everything. I am such a broke girl. By the time, I might be 30 and start fulfilling my dreams?? OH NO! My friends might be all married with dozens of kids or getting the life they want. Haha.

Waiting to get my freedom. Think that 21 years of age is freedom?? Now I think not so.

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

That's a long list of to-dos.

I felt very much discouraged when I am trying all means to gain some numbers on the scale while people like you are trying to shed kilos. Humph. Anyway, you aren't fat what! Perhaps just need to keep in shape. Bear in mind, round is also a shape. :p

Anyway, I will be going to Bangkok too. Couldn't get enough leave to get onto Taiwan. Who knows, if you are going, maybe I might be able to see you there.

My exams are next week! Pray for me man. I need peace.

Anyway, keep your to-do list shorter eh, and focus on one of them at a time. I know you are great at multi-tasking, but focusing on one thing at a time will reap better results. haha.

Anyway, see ya soon. Miss Singapore eh? Sunny island without the haze =)

3:39 PM  
Blogger Shanshan said...

Raynor Gan Xue Yang! U r really sickening.. Still tell me round is also a shape.. Fainted~ I want to lose weight, not get round.. Even if in shape, I want to be slim and fit.. NOT round!! Want to knock ur head!! Later become like zhiwei's luohan tou.. Haha.. Oops =P

Haha.. u also know I like to multi-task.. Is it so obvious?? Hehz.. Okok I will try to focus then..
I will pray for your exams.. Don't worry.. Just do your best!

Yup, see ya real soon.. Hehe.. Be back in 11 days time!! Of coz I miss S'pore!!

9:01 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey... You actually know my full name. duh~ haha. Just that you got the sequence wrong. Well, I can forgive you on that.

I know that you are eager to be in good shape. I think you should go for some weight and resistance training. To tone up the muscles. I was told that a lot of people spend time in the cardio section without much chance in losing weight.

And I actually did an observation. You can try it too. If you take a good look at the people generally at the Cardio section VS people at the free weights/resistance section, you will realise that the fitter (in better shape) people are normally the ones in Free Weights/Resistance section.

Goes to show that running doesn't really help much. Only good for stamina and your heart, of course.

Girls got freaked out of free weights because they thought they will grow huge muscles. Just make sure you don't take the extremely heavy weights. Just take a lighter one, and increase the reps, that will do the trick.

Haha. I haven't had time to hit the gym. Will do soon.

Thanks for the prayers, I appreciate them. I really need them though.

See you. Ice cream feast again? hehe. Will it affect your shaping programme? hehe. :p

5:34 AM  

Post a Comment

<< Home


WishlistS_for_2007

I want to LOSE weight, alot alot of weight
I want to graduate from Melb Uni in July 2007
I want to earn LOTS of $$ and settle my loans
I want to get my dream car once I settled my loans
I want to set up my own business in 2010 so that I can earn more money
I want to love my dear more and more everyday
I want to be the luckiest girl on earth
I want to learn more each day
I want to love God daily

My Dear Friends
*Hui Ying.*
*Kang Ren.*
*Amelia.*
*Shawn*
*Lan Ying*
*Yu Zhong*
*Felicia*
*Jean*
*Loraine*
*Raynor*
*Jeanette*


Create Your Own!